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How to Be an Alpha Male

"Just by making decisions can be a step on the road to getting the title alpha male."

One easy way to become more alpha-like is to make the decisions. You should not fear whether your choice is the right one or wrong one, just make it. Also, don't hesitate when you make a decision. Sure you can think it through with time, but when giving your decision, do it without hesitation.

What should I cook for dinner? Spaghetti. Which dress is better on me? Wear the red one. Which shoes look nicer? I like the second pair. Am I getting fatter? Yes you need to lose weight. Should the child go to a babysitter or daycare? Daycare. What should we do today? Watch a movie then sex later. Should we go out to the club with our friends? No I'm too lazy, next time. Can I borrow your car to go out? No I'm running low on gas. Should our child go to private school? Yes and you'll help pay for it. Can I buy this purse? No it's too much money.

While she can give her input and advise, you, being the leader, have the final say. When you decide on everything as much as possible, subconciously she will submit to you being the alpha in your relationship. So when you ask her to do something, she will be be more conducive to following what you have to say. Inevitably, you will get more out of your relationship like this.

"For a man who wants to be a leader for a better reason than partying it will be a long term commitment not just a short term con. It may be to get to the top of the work ladder or to be in a position to attract the right woman to allow himself to settle down and have a family...For some time the term alpha male has been used as a bit of a joke but in reality the ones who really deserve the title are the sort of people most of us will want to be around."




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