having a lot of legal troubles with the ex. He's a spiteful vengeful fellow who has taken on filing legal motions pro se. Multiple civil lawsuits as well. I've won every time we end up in court, which you would think would deter someone, but nope. At this point he owes me over 10k in legal fees that I was awarded via judgements. I've been awarded over 15k so far in the less than two years since the divorce.
But the real problem is every new motion, every new legal bill leaves me less able to see everything around me. All I see is the financial stress of the next few motions/law suits while I am just trying to recover from it all.
And it sucks. The fellow I've been seeing for somewhere around a year now and I have issues. We get along great then something happens and it's like we've dropped kryptonite on the whole thing. He goes dark for a week or two, then we manage to hash it out. Then the next nuke drops and the pattern repeats itself.
And I just feel lost. And sad. And paranoid. But is it really paranoia if someone is continually gunning for you? I've been trying so hard to be fiscally responsible, but the legal bills eat away at my financial security. I need very little time to actually recover, but I do need time. And it's time I'm not able to get because of a vengeful disturbed ex.
At this point I just want the pain to stop. I want to be able to lick my wounds and heal. But I'm very quickly going into a downward spiral that I don't know how to prevent.
-M
But the real problem is every new motion, every new legal bill leaves me less able to see everything around me. All I see is the financial stress of the next few motions/law suits while I am just trying to recover from it all.
And it sucks. The fellow I've been seeing for somewhere around a year now and I have issues. We get along great then something happens and it's like we've dropped kryptonite on the whole thing. He goes dark for a week or two, then we manage to hash it out. Then the next nuke drops and the pattern repeats itself.
And I just feel lost. And sad. And paranoid. But is it really paranoia if someone is continually gunning for you? I've been trying so hard to be fiscally responsible, but the legal bills eat away at my financial security. I need very little time to actually recover, but I do need time. And it's time I'm not able to get because of a vengeful disturbed ex.
At this point I just want the pain to stop. I want to be able to lick my wounds and heal. But I'm very quickly going into a downward spiral that I don't know how to prevent.
-M
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