reaching the no point of return status ;after 17 years of sexless marriage with a selfish person , Divorce is unevitable .
I have started to feel lucky being in a third world !
I checked with my lawyer about what will happen when I get a divorce ; how fast a divorce can happen ....
shocking to me , it is much easier than expected .
Under Lebanese law , Divorce follow first the religion ; it is unfair for women especially if the male escapes his duties.
in my case when I execute it , it will take less than a month to take effect.
What I am giving her is way beyond law and religion ; we have a city house worth 700K , and a villa in mountain worth 300-350K .
by Law she will get only 2 things :
-an amount which was agreed on at time of marriage ;(200 golden coins in my case) and a fixed amount per mounth of few hundred dollars per month to cover family lodging and expenses.
I am working on a formula which i feel honestly fair about it .
I was the bread winner for 17 years; she earned all the time around 25% as much as my salary .
she was using half of it at home ; and the remaining was on things she desired ; most of which things she like to have at home ,from ugly furnitures to dozens of boots and fits for her ...
I have legally granted her the full lifetime rental right for the city house ; which means she owns it as long as she is alive .
after we expire , it goes to kids .
So for me the decision there is no really materialistic loss ;
I will take care of kids expenses easily ; their education are on me as long as I have legally their custody ; where I will release it to her unofficially to ease the process; if she opts to leave the kids with me I will be more than happy ...
I will grant her her rights in 200 golden coins ...
people around suggested that I get a second marriage ( legally no issues);
Which I can easily afford too.
I feel it is not fair because she doesn't have that right ; though she doesn't care .
opinions please , Am I being fair in my proposal ?
I have started to feel lucky being in a third world !
I checked with my lawyer about what will happen when I get a divorce ; how fast a divorce can happen ....
shocking to me , it is much easier than expected .
Under Lebanese law , Divorce follow first the religion ; it is unfair for women especially if the male escapes his duties.
in my case when I execute it , it will take less than a month to take effect.
What I am giving her is way beyond law and religion ; we have a city house worth 700K , and a villa in mountain worth 300-350K .
by Law she will get only 2 things :
-an amount which was agreed on at time of marriage ;(200 golden coins in my case) and a fixed amount per mounth of few hundred dollars per month to cover family lodging and expenses.
I am working on a formula which i feel honestly fair about it .
I was the bread winner for 17 years; she earned all the time around 25% as much as my salary .
she was using half of it at home ; and the remaining was on things she desired ; most of which things she like to have at home ,from ugly furnitures to dozens of boots and fits for her ...
I have legally granted her the full lifetime rental right for the city house ; which means she owns it as long as she is alive .
after we expire , it goes to kids .
So for me the decision there is no really materialistic loss ;
I will take care of kids expenses easily ; their education are on me as long as I have legally their custody ; where I will release it to her unofficially to ease the process; if she opts to leave the kids with me I will be more than happy ...
I will grant her her rights in 200 golden coins ...
people around suggested that I get a second marriage ( legally no issues);
Which I can easily afford too.
I feel it is not fair because she doesn't have that right ; though she doesn't care .
opinions please , Am I being fair in my proposal ?
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