I'm new to the site and am really glad I came across it. I've been married for 11 years and my husband and I dated 4 years before that. We have a 6 year old who I love with all my heart. I never want to do anything to hurt my child, but I just don't know how much longer I can stay in this lonely marriage.
My husband I and fight sometimes, but most of the time we just avoid and try to keep going without really talking about the issues. He works a very stressful job and really doesn't have the time or patience to talk to me about my unhappiness. I'm a SAHM and am so grateful, but have come to find it very isolating and lonely.
I feel like we are roommates and don't like each other very much at all. Can you really stay married to someone whom you love, but really don't like? I think the biggest issue is the stress of his job and the fact that he is cut off from me emotionally. I know he wants me to stay at home and take care of our son, but I also feel he resents me for it and feels I have no reason to complain about anything, since he's provided our family with a very nice life. We'll fight about this and then go back to normal, until the next fight. I just don't know what to do anymore. :(
My husband I and fight sometimes, but most of the time we just avoid and try to keep going without really talking about the issues. He works a very stressful job and really doesn't have the time or patience to talk to me about my unhappiness. I'm a SAHM and am so grateful, but have come to find it very isolating and lonely.
I feel like we are roommates and don't like each other very much at all. Can you really stay married to someone whom you love, but really don't like? I think the biggest issue is the stress of his job and the fact that he is cut off from me emotionally. I know he wants me to stay at home and take care of our son, but I also feel he resents me for it and feels I have no reason to complain about anything, since he's provided our family with a very nice life. We'll fight about this and then go back to normal, until the next fight. I just don't know what to do anymore. :(
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