Recently my husband of 10 years was caught in an EA with the manager of our business. For financial, legal, and other reasons we can not terminate her employment, there honestly is nobody else that can run our business. We are seeing a counsellor to deal with the issues leading up to him cheating but we can't deal with the elephant in the room because she is still in our life. Our counsellor has now got my husband to understand he needs to set clear boundaries with the OW and remain employee/boss only but not shocking I am always wondering if he has crossed those boundaries and of course when I need to talk to her about business it digs up the hurt and betrayal all over again. She has no idea I know about the affair and she is also married with a young child. My husband is trying to sell the business to get her out of our life but that could take a year! In other people's opinion will we even be able to start any type of recovery while she is still in our life? I don't want to live in a place of hurt and limbo for over a year.
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