2 weeks ago by boyfriend (or ex, slightly confused where we're at) moved to university 3 hours away from me. We haven't been together a long time, only a few months, but we were seeing each other for sometime as well. We've done a lot together and he's one of the nicest guys i've met, we've got a lot in common and its been really cool.
We both got really upset when he left, but when he got there after a couple of days, he said there's no temptation at all, he's not that kind of person at all to cheat. We didn't talk much the first week, I wanted to give him space to socialise and make friends.
But little under a week he messaged me saying he kissed someone in a club, a stranger, he was really drunk and can't remember much.
I was very angry and made my point clear that I was pissed off! But I gave him a second chance because it was only a kiss and I can understand the pressure of freshers. He was really apologetic and told me he would never leave me or betray me like that again.
But then a couple days later my friends told me they had noticed he had hidden his relationship status on Facebook. So i confronted him about it and he said maybe we should go on a break. I was confused as he said he wanted to be with me and I felt a bit back stabbed as I had just given him a second chance. We skyped later that day and confessed that he doesn't want to break up he was just too scared to tell me that he had done hand sexual stuff (you know) with the same girl. He was drunk again.
I broke down, I broke up with him instantly. I get angry more than upset and it got messy.
I'm not going to go into detail what happened next but, then the next day after arguing he was crying to me etc etc
I was having none of it, but now a week on we've still been talking after agreeing to keep distance for a while.
He's still my best friend but now it feels like we're still in a relationship because we've been chatting and continuing as normal.
Well not completely normal as i keep reminding him that he's built up my trust twice and just knocked it down.
My mum loves him and thinks he's a really nice lad, and says he just got caught up in freshers life and I should get back with him.
My best friend says that she understands me as feeling do take over. As i do still love him.
All my other friends have been giving me hell, and telling me to keep away from him.
I'm not sure if we're still together, it feels like it but officially i guess not.
What would you do in my situation?
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