Hi All,
I am new here and wanted to share my situation and get some feedback.
I have been married for 6 years now and was with my wife for about 8 years before that. Been a while.
5 years ago we met a family who we became close friends with. They were great and the husband and I became close buddies. There was an incident approx 18 months later where the wife accused my wife of trying to flirt with her husband. My wife told me it was a mistake as they were drunk.
Its now been 5 years and my marriage has been broken since, that's what I feel. I have tried to ask my wife several times what is happening and why we do not have a connection anymore, she has no answer and gets very defensive.
We now have a beautiful daughter, long story how that happened.
I have always had a niggling feeling something is not right and somehow she always manages to dismiss what I say. Her communication skills are far superior to mine and I get intimidated when she is defensive, I just end up stepping back.
I recently found evidence depicting she has been having an affair with the husband from 5 years ago, who was supposed to be my friend. The evidence I discovered, is both emotional and sexual in nature and I feel soooo broken, I just dont know what to do.
I really love my wife, which is why I have stuck beside her for this long :((( I made a promise of my wedding day which I intend to live by.
I am afraid to confront her as she is still getting over the loss of her parents. She is unstable and I am afraid to push her over the edge.
The hurt of betrayal is so deep ... I just feel like running away, but I have my lovely daughter who needs both mom n dad.
:(((
Justcomplicated.
I am new here and wanted to share my situation and get some feedback.
I have been married for 6 years now and was with my wife for about 8 years before that. Been a while.
5 years ago we met a family who we became close friends with. They were great and the husband and I became close buddies. There was an incident approx 18 months later where the wife accused my wife of trying to flirt with her husband. My wife told me it was a mistake as they were drunk.
Its now been 5 years and my marriage has been broken since, that's what I feel. I have tried to ask my wife several times what is happening and why we do not have a connection anymore, she has no answer and gets very defensive.
We now have a beautiful daughter, long story how that happened.
I have always had a niggling feeling something is not right and somehow she always manages to dismiss what I say. Her communication skills are far superior to mine and I get intimidated when she is defensive, I just end up stepping back.
I recently found evidence depicting she has been having an affair with the husband from 5 years ago, who was supposed to be my friend. The evidence I discovered, is both emotional and sexual in nature and I feel soooo broken, I just dont know what to do.
I really love my wife, which is why I have stuck beside her for this long :((( I made a promise of my wedding day which I intend to live by.
I am afraid to confront her as she is still getting over the loss of her parents. She is unstable and I am afraid to push her over the edge.
The hurt of betrayal is so deep ... I just feel like running away, but I have my lovely daughter who needs both mom n dad.
:(((
Justcomplicated.
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