I'll probably be hung out to dry on this but here goes.
I've posted in another thread that my wife gets frequent yeast infections. So, with those and her "time of the month" that puts us at sex maybe once per month. Then there's also her tmj pain so oral is pretty much out. I won't go into detail in this thread as I did in the other but suffice to say I sympathize with her issues. Don't beat me up over giving the bare minimum background.
Moving on, I've asked her repeatedly since she has these issues can we maybe spice things up in other ways. But it never happens. I'll ask her to wear "sexy" outfits. Maybe shower together. Sleep naked (hard to do with kids in the house though). Something, anything to spice things up. This may be TMI so skip if you want but I've even asked her to let me "finish" in her mouth. The other night she said yes but at the moment of truth...nothing. I've asked about maybe anal but she's not to keen on that one. I do understand a bit but we've done it once before a loooooong time ago so it might be worth a try.
As I said, we maybe have intercourse once per month but sometimes less. Then maybe every other week or three she'll just invite me into the bedroom and give me a handjob. And it's like the most uncomfortable, unemotional act I can imagine. It's just something she does for me and doesn't feel like it's something she wants to do. So, in a way, I'm thankful but it's become our sex life now and it just isn't fulfilling whatsoever.
I realize to someone not knowing the whole story I might look bad but I honestly just want our relationship (yes, even physical) to grow. I just can't see living like this for the rest of my life.
I've posted in another thread that my wife gets frequent yeast infections. So, with those and her "time of the month" that puts us at sex maybe once per month. Then there's also her tmj pain so oral is pretty much out. I won't go into detail in this thread as I did in the other but suffice to say I sympathize with her issues. Don't beat me up over giving the bare minimum background.
Moving on, I've asked her repeatedly since she has these issues can we maybe spice things up in other ways. But it never happens. I'll ask her to wear "sexy" outfits. Maybe shower together. Sleep naked (hard to do with kids in the house though). Something, anything to spice things up. This may be TMI so skip if you want but I've even asked her to let me "finish" in her mouth. The other night she said yes but at the moment of truth...nothing. I've asked about maybe anal but she's not to keen on that one. I do understand a bit but we've done it once before a loooooong time ago so it might be worth a try.
As I said, we maybe have intercourse once per month but sometimes less. Then maybe every other week or three she'll just invite me into the bedroom and give me a handjob. And it's like the most uncomfortable, unemotional act I can imagine. It's just something she does for me and doesn't feel like it's something she wants to do. So, in a way, I'm thankful but it's become our sex life now and it just isn't fulfilling whatsoever.
I realize to someone not knowing the whole story I might look bad but I honestly just want our relationship (yes, even physical) to grow. I just can't see living like this for the rest of my life.
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