Ive never posted about this. Ive been married to the same man for over twenty years. We never fight, we are best friends, no other marriage issues. Hes not gay or cheating. Id be happier if he was, but believe me, hes not. Since day one hes always been kind of uninterested in sex. At first it was twice a week, then once. Then it grew worse and worse. Our longest stretch was four years. I left at that four year anniversary. He was totally shocked and hurt because nothing else is wrong. He begged, i came back. I came back to two incredible weeks. Since then, its slowly going back. Hes full. Hes tired. Its too light. He needs to shower. He has talked to his doctor, nothing. I know he loves me but as lovers we are two huge worlds apart. Gigantic breadths of space. He tries to make me believe he wants to but just not tonight, all the time. Ive plainly and romantically talked to him over and over. Ive offered every position, scenerio, setting, time, place. Ive even said id do anything...short of another man with us. Anything. Please advise me. Also, has anyone had a similar problem?
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