My husband of 15 years is very honest...at least I think he is! Prior to getting married he slept with many woman....when we first got married we were intimate daily for about the first 5 years...then after starting a family things started to change
I typically do it all! Work full time, do everything around the house, tend to the kids. He works a physically demanding job, "used" to make more money than me, and felt that it was up to me to do it all since he was the larger bread winner. Well needless to say I resent that he does nothing to help me out, and when I get to bed Im out majority of the time.
He claims that he doesn't think he can e with just me for the rest of his life....that all men cheat...and he resents that he's the only friggin man on earth that tries to do the right thing and that its killing him. Really he hates woman....had a terrible upbringing and looks as woman as objects (except me). He says he wants to be physical with other woman...not emotional that he just wants other woman. He claims its unnatural for men to be with one woman physically! He loves porn, fantasizes all the time, and flirts constantly!...makes me crazy!
So is it true? I figured out that he joined a sex site for locals a couple of weeks ago and he immediately deleted the account and told me it popped up on a porn site and he just wanted to see what it was about....
Three days ago I found a text he sent to my nephews wife....very vulgar. Basically saying he thought she was a tease and to let him know when she wanted to play....she responded back that although she felt some chemistry with him...she never would and that he should delete the text before someone got hurt....well that someone was me because his dumb a.. Didnt delete the deletes!
So is it true...do all men cheat or think about cheating...I need a mans perspective! Do you think he could be a sex addict without cheating! He's blankly honest about everything so I believe him when he says he hasn't cheated...yet.... Does it sound like I'm a fool! Just don't know what to do...therapy....divorce....we have kids so I want to stick it out...but am I destined for failure?
I typically do it all! Work full time, do everything around the house, tend to the kids. He works a physically demanding job, "used" to make more money than me, and felt that it was up to me to do it all since he was the larger bread winner. Well needless to say I resent that he does nothing to help me out, and when I get to bed Im out majority of the time.
He claims that he doesn't think he can e with just me for the rest of his life....that all men cheat...and he resents that he's the only friggin man on earth that tries to do the right thing and that its killing him. Really he hates woman....had a terrible upbringing and looks as woman as objects (except me). He says he wants to be physical with other woman...not emotional that he just wants other woman. He claims its unnatural for men to be with one woman physically! He loves porn, fantasizes all the time, and flirts constantly!...makes me crazy!
So is it true? I figured out that he joined a sex site for locals a couple of weeks ago and he immediately deleted the account and told me it popped up on a porn site and he just wanted to see what it was about....
Three days ago I found a text he sent to my nephews wife....very vulgar. Basically saying he thought she was a tease and to let him know when she wanted to play....she responded back that although she felt some chemistry with him...she never would and that he should delete the text before someone got hurt....well that someone was me because his dumb a.. Didnt delete the deletes!
So is it true...do all men cheat or think about cheating...I need a mans perspective! Do you think he could be a sex addict without cheating! He's blankly honest about everything so I believe him when he says he hasn't cheated...yet.... Does it sound like I'm a fool! Just don't know what to do...therapy....divorce....we have kids so I want to stick it out...but am I destined for failure?
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