So a month ago, me and my wife started our seperation. We agreed on terms of kids/money/bills. Once I left, she completely alienated me. Disn't want me anywhere the house unless she said so. As I left I knew a friend of hers was texting her cute lovey dovey stuff, which I acted like I didn't mind (180). Now I learn that he is one of the 2 guys who is helping her finish the 2 br basement which I started, and she will rent out one room to him. Says he's just a friend, but I know he has slept there, supposedly on a spare mattress in the living room, as per my kids. She was friendly with this guy, and talks texts alot now I think. I found a pic on the kids ipad of them at a rodeo, with another woman friend of hers. The two of then were posing sort of like a couple would (almost cheek to cheek). I understand that maybe he is just a friend, but it feels like she knew she wanted him while I was still in the house, we knew we werent working out. Quickl y after I left i told her I dont want to stay away, i love you, blah,blah. She blocked me out of her life to move on with this guy. I mentioned MC, but no way in her mind. She also doesn't seem worried about money too much, when she is hardly working. She just for a new cell, and been shopping for a used car. I have 2 kids every weekend right now, one chikd is special needs, from her previous marriage, but I have been daddy to him since he was a baby and dont want to mess him up by only taking my son. His dad is not really in the picture. Just found the pic her and him and going nuts. Don't want to start a problem with her, but I want to let her know that i'm onto her. Wasn't right, her getting chummy with this guy while I'm still in the house. Having anxiety attacks, scared. Dr gave me something that helps somewhat, and I go to therapy once a week. I know it's over, but feel stepped on, like garbage. Did the 180, totally dont think it will work- she's stone cold w me, and if this guy is more than a friend, he's a good looking, nice guy, from what I hear. She seems happy with her new life, so quickly.
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