I have a question for the men if that's ok? I turned 40 this year and noticed I suddenly became invisible to men. I understand men have a reflexive unconscious visual response to something that attracts their eyes (shape, hair, movement, youth etc). I used to find this glancing frequently and while it made me somewhat uncomfortable now it has stopped I have one concern. I couldn't care less about other men but if they don't find me remotely viscerally attractive but rather invisible (I haven't put on weight or got major wrinkles or anything) is it possible for a husband to still have a genuine visceral attraction to his wife if it's not validated anywhere else? Or are we going to be on the path to friendship only now? I know it seems like a silly question but I don't want to make a fool of myself dressing up or acting sexy when he might no longer find me instinctively attractive. Although it hurts to know the possibility I'd rather know the truth. For a w oman being attractive to your spouse is pretty important since so many marriage books go on about it. What do you think guys? Thanks.
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