I am an attractive female in my early 30's and have a relationship dilemma. My fiancé and I got engaged about 2 years ago shortly after discovering my pregnancy. Our daughter is now 1 and he came off as being this down to earth family man at first but now he just seems down right strange to me. He seems like a very depressed and unhappy person and that's not how I flow at all. I'm used to guys that hold conversations and just talk about anything, want to go places, and just like being near me. I understand that sometimes people just feel like being off to themselves and having their space but this behavior is bipolar like. Sometimes he is upbeat and talkative and the very next second he is distant and has a nasty attitude. This pattern repeats throughout the day…all-day…..everyday! I refuse to live like this because I have a teenage daughter and before he came into the picture we were very happy and it seems like since we have gotten a place together he has put a damper on our household. He has always slept on the couch but never goes anywhere to make me think he is cheating. He has been like this since the day we got into a serious relationship and this is why we are still engaged because I'm not sure about this one. On three different occasions he has attempted to plan our wedding. He ran all over town getting caterers together, venue brochures, and all the things women normally get hyped up about but I'm just not understanding if he wants to get married to me so bad why does he act distant and like such a miserable person... Neither one of us has ever been married before but I for one know that marriage is not going to make things better if it's already shaky. We haven't has any major issues in the relationship just a few arguments about his attitude.
And to add…He is a business professional and puts on a facade like he is this clean cut guy that likes standards and women with standard…but the track record isn't looking so good. He has a few ex's that were nice classy professional women that seem down to earth and easy to get along with but he seems like he didn't respect them as much as the females that didn't really have themselves together and needed him to carry them financially and mentally?? Does he want to feel needed? As bad as I want to make our family work, I don't mind us going in separate directions to have a piece of mind. I do not feel respected and I am ready to be treated like the queen I should be treated like because I like treating my man like a king when the respect is there. What is this and what do I do people because I am sick and tired of being sick and tired! :confused:
And to add…He is a business professional and puts on a facade like he is this clean cut guy that likes standards and women with standard…but the track record isn't looking so good. He has a few ex's that were nice classy professional women that seem down to earth and easy to get along with but he seems like he didn't respect them as much as the females that didn't really have themselves together and needed him to carry them financially and mentally?? Does he want to feel needed? As bad as I want to make our family work, I don't mind us going in separate directions to have a piece of mind. I do not feel respected and I am ready to be treated like the queen I should be treated like because I like treating my man like a king when the respect is there. What is this and what do I do people because I am sick and tired of being sick and tired! :confused:
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