I joined this forum last year and kept visiting to read threads but never participated or rather dared participating in any discussion.
The same old story of many members. I have been married for 11 years around. Since day one, I have been very active in sex. Initially, my W was cooperative but never active. I thought it would be normal for some ladies with low sex desire. However, gradually, this sex relation became a one way traffic. Whenever, I wanted (twice a week), I have to do every thing. It is like masturbation with a pillow.
Later I read somewhere that lack of vit-D may be the cause. Many times, I thogught of giving up trying. BUT I had no alternatives. I talked to her several times to cooperate and participate but all in vain. Finally, we reached to conclusion that
1. It would be once a week.
2. She would not do anything and would not resist only.
3. Once I am over, she would turn back and sleep.
4. I would not DISTURB during week days.
5. I would not ask her to do it in variety of ways.
Guys, I cant talk about it to any one around. I know many ppl are having similar situation but how to some of you cope with it. I read a thread that your wife should respect your needs. bah.... I tried that as well but that did not work well. Plz come up with some unique practices.
The same old story of many members. I have been married for 11 years around. Since day one, I have been very active in sex. Initially, my W was cooperative but never active. I thought it would be normal for some ladies with low sex desire. However, gradually, this sex relation became a one way traffic. Whenever, I wanted (twice a week), I have to do every thing. It is like masturbation with a pillow.
Later I read somewhere that lack of vit-D may be the cause. Many times, I thogught of giving up trying. BUT I had no alternatives. I talked to her several times to cooperate and participate but all in vain. Finally, we reached to conclusion that
1. It would be once a week.
2. She would not do anything and would not resist only.
3. Once I am over, she would turn back and sleep.
4. I would not DISTURB during week days.
5. I would not ask her to do it in variety of ways.
Guys, I cant talk about it to any one around. I know many ppl are having similar situation but how to some of you cope with it. I read a thread that your wife should respect your needs. bah.... I tried that as well but that did not work well. Plz come up with some unique practices.
Put the internet to work for you.
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