This will be an over-simplified version of events but I'm curious as to what other people think of this.
I met a girl the other day in a bar I go to with my friends, she's a friend of a friend. We hit it off almost immediately, lots of flirting, touching (not in that way) just really light-hearted. I had to leave fairly early because I had to get the last train home but I couldn't find her when I was leaving so I just left. I texted our mutual friend later and asked her if the girl was single, and she said that she has a boyfriend but the boyfriend is an a-hole...but they're still together, supposedly...
So then I added the girl on Facebook later and we were talking and flirting for about a hour or so. At no point did she bring up the fact she had a boyfriend...all a bit weird.
I messaged her yesterday evening as she said the other day that she wanted to go and see a movie so we have arranged to go on a "date" as such (and have both acknowledged that it is a date). Still, she has not mentioned this boyfriend of hers. My guesses is that things can't be that good between them if she's actively dating someone else...
Am I in the wrong? I have been cheated on before and it's not great, but now it seems like I'm helping her cheat on her boyfriend, despite that she seems fully aware of this and is in fact pursuing it.
Any guidance on this would be appreciated, even if it is to tell me I'm a filthy cheater and should be ashamed... :o
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