Hi all,
I apologize in advance if this becomes a bit of a ramble.
Firstly a bit about me: I'm currently studying for a Masters whilst working part time (a job that came about as part of my course). I'm a girl, 23 and have never had a serious relationship.
Basically there is a guy at work who I have (by both of our admissions) spent far too much time with over the last few months. He has been training me on a fair few things and the type of work means there is a lot of teamwork involved. The thing is I can't help but think of him as more than a friend. I've never been a particularly sociable person although I get on very well with everyone at the company. I have only known him about 9 months but in that time I feel I've known him much longer than my 'close' friends from uni.
There are times that I kid myself that something could happen, based purely on how well we get on and how much we have in common. However he's in a relationship, which has been the case for the last 4 years although it is long distance. He mentions her fairly regularly and she sounds amazing although I don't know if they have much in common.
I guess I just wanted to know the opinions of some lovely TSR people. I don't know whether to say/do anything or just forever wonder what-if? The fact that we work together is becoming less and less relevant as I am leaving the company in mid-October, although I really hate the fact that I would have no reason to see him after then.
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