I have been very unhappy in my marriage for a very long time. Unfortunately my wife is now disabled and suffers from chronic pain to which there is no end in sight.
I feel i am very supportive, attentive and work very hard for her to have as best of a life as possible.
Problem is she is angry at her situation, depressed, refuses to talk to anyone about it, and worse has given up on working on our relationship. There is no physical contact (it hurts her) and i get no emotional support from her. She is afraid of being alone, yet hates people so I am not allowed to gave friends or family over and any time i want to do things without her (often things she can no loger do like skiing or biking) it is a fight.
It has been over 7 years since she was able to work, and over 10 years since the injury occurred.
I am tired of living in a one sided relationship...yet i feel that i cannot leave her as she is almost 100% dependent on me.
What to do?:confused:
I feel i am very supportive, attentive and work very hard for her to have as best of a life as possible.
Problem is she is angry at her situation, depressed, refuses to talk to anyone about it, and worse has given up on working on our relationship. There is no physical contact (it hurts her) and i get no emotional support from her. She is afraid of being alone, yet hates people so I am not allowed to gave friends or family over and any time i want to do things without her (often things she can no loger do like skiing or biking) it is a fight.
It has been over 7 years since she was able to work, and over 10 years since the injury occurred.
I am tired of living in a one sided relationship...yet i feel that i cannot leave her as she is almost 100% dependent on me.
What to do?:confused:
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