Two sides to every story

I recently discovered that my wife has been having an online affair with someone she met on this website. Her user name is dixieangel, his is Gunthar. Not only have they been conversing for a year and a half, he has come to Texas on more than one occasion and have spent several days in hotels together. She lied to me and told me she was going out of town for her job. I can only imagine what he told his wife. I have spent the last 8 years defending myself from this woman's accusations and have stood by her side no matter what she has thrown at me. She has moved out twice before, fallen on hard times, and both times I have taken her back. She has now moved out for a 3rd time and claims she is in love with Jeffrey (Gunthar). Each time she has left she has basically cleaned out my house.

She originally joined this site for the sole purpose of complaining about me to the point that people are accusing me of having an affair with guys. She joined in the summer of 2012, started bad mouthing me, and Jeffrey jumped at the opportunity to show her sympathy. I told her that every thing negative she said about me was a road map for him to follow. He lives out of state and is still married. I say he is just using her, she denies it. I say he was out trolling for someone vulnerable and she doesn't see it.

I would like some thoughts....and please don't base your judgments on anything she has said about me because there are always two sides to every story and she has only given you one.

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