Hi.Everyone.My partner of 18 years and the mother of our 13 year old son called our relationship off in November 2013. One day we were fine (or so i thought) and the next KAPOW. She would not let me touch her and i mean not even hold her hand or a hug.
Now this sounds like an affair but she has only been out twice with her friends in the last 3 months so i dont think anyone else (but seems a BIG red flag).I have the only computer in my office so she can not e-mail anyone like an EA? I moved to spare bedroom and i am still there.I have provided a wonderful big house, no money worries i own my own company and her parents treat me like a son.
I have asked her many times how we can get back on track and she clearly states she has not 1% of emotion left for me and would leave if it was not for our son and the fact that she would have to get a full time job. We are joint owners of our home even though i have paid every penny off the mortgage and all the bills so she will be entitled to half share.She only works part time 18 hours per week and has said she does not want to work anymore and at this time i am paying all her bills , as i have for the last 18 years.
I am stunned that my partner wants to break up our family. It is hard and i have tried all sorts of things to get us back together but she simply is not interested.I have now noticed her getting more nasty everyweek with me just little things that she will remark on in a verbally nasty way where she has always been sweet to me.
She is still here and other than making me my tea and a cup of tea in the morning it is as if i am a ghost to her. She goes to her bed at 6.30pm every night and neither me or my son see her till 8.00am next morning.I spent a lot of time with my son at night and if she says goodnight to him she will look straight past me and ignore me 95% of the time.
She seems to have re written 99% of our relationship history and accuses me of various things that never happened such as when i built the house i choose how it was furnished (no i didnt she did) and other daft comments like that that are simply not true.Only this morning i said i have not held her or kissed her since November and she said again that i mean nothing to her because i have emotionally neglected her and also I love you but am not in love with you.
She has also said after that that she has no where to go and no money and no proper job so will never leave me.For several weeks i would have done anything to be back with her but i am not sure now though obviously she seems to have zero feelings for me anyway.This seems so strange has anyone any help or advise?? Thank you.
Now this sounds like an affair but she has only been out twice with her friends in the last 3 months so i dont think anyone else (but seems a BIG red flag).I have the only computer in my office so she can not e-mail anyone like an EA? I moved to spare bedroom and i am still there.I have provided a wonderful big house, no money worries i own my own company and her parents treat me like a son.
I have asked her many times how we can get back on track and she clearly states she has not 1% of emotion left for me and would leave if it was not for our son and the fact that she would have to get a full time job. We are joint owners of our home even though i have paid every penny off the mortgage and all the bills so she will be entitled to half share.She only works part time 18 hours per week and has said she does not want to work anymore and at this time i am paying all her bills , as i have for the last 18 years.
I am stunned that my partner wants to break up our family. It is hard and i have tried all sorts of things to get us back together but she simply is not interested.I have now noticed her getting more nasty everyweek with me just little things that she will remark on in a verbally nasty way where she has always been sweet to me.
She is still here and other than making me my tea and a cup of tea in the morning it is as if i am a ghost to her. She goes to her bed at 6.30pm every night and neither me or my son see her till 8.00am next morning.I spent a lot of time with my son at night and if she says goodnight to him she will look straight past me and ignore me 95% of the time.
She seems to have re written 99% of our relationship history and accuses me of various things that never happened such as when i built the house i choose how it was furnished (no i didnt she did) and other daft comments like that that are simply not true.Only this morning i said i have not held her or kissed her since November and she said again that i mean nothing to her because i have emotionally neglected her and also I love you but am not in love with you.
She has also said after that that she has no where to go and no money and no proper job so will never leave me.For several weeks i would have done anything to be back with her but i am not sure now though obviously she seems to have zero feelings for me anyway.This seems so strange has anyone any help or advise?? Thank you.
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