I understand giving forgiveness to your significant other after they have earned it. I have always played with a thought what would the affair partner have to do to receive forgiveness from me.
To contemplate forgiveness he would have to write his family and explain to them he had the affair with my wife because he wanted to and not because "I was such a horrible person that when he was nice to my wife she fell for him and he was just caught off guard". He would also need to write a letter of apology to my wife and me for lying to both of us. He would need to write a letter of confession about the affair and get it notarized so I can keep a hold of it for future needs. Then lastly he would need to let me punch him as hard as I can in the face without retaliation. At that point I would contemplate forgiving him.
You might think is a bit harsh. I am not religious and don't have a dogma interfering with my judgement.
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To contemplate forgiveness he would have to write his family and explain to them he had the affair with my wife because he wanted to and not because "I was such a horrible person that when he was nice to my wife she fell for him and he was just caught off guard". He would also need to write a letter of apology to my wife and me for lying to both of us. He would need to write a letter of confession about the affair and get it notarized so I can keep a hold of it for future needs. Then lastly he would need to let me punch him as hard as I can in the face without retaliation. At that point I would contemplate forgiving him.
You might think is a bit harsh. I am not religious and don't have a dogma interfering with my judgement.
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