Hi everyone looking for some advice as are many others so I really do appreciate any help with my matter.
My ex and I technically broke up last October but were still living together due to financial circumstances and the fact we have a son together. She moved to Scotland in January of this year and has been there 3 weeks now. We were still in contact everyday with each other however some days it felt like we were talking as friends and other days she would ring just to have a pop at me or when she had a problem with something very simple in her house.
Yesterday after another of these phone calls where all she did was put me down I decided enough was enough and have initiated no contact except for speaking to my son or if it regards my son.
So not even 24hrs on and she has tried to ring 3 times already claiming it is important but nothing to do with my son. So i politely text her and say if its not to do with Troy (my son) then just text me. So she texts me and surprise surprise its not so important that she needed to ring me.
Anyways i text her the information she required and 10 minutes later my phone rings again, i again say to her to text and as a response i get this and i quote "Your being pathetic now, good job I have troy you would never let me see him i cant put it in text i need to ring"
We were together for 11 years and I know she has moved to Scotland and she has no family there and has only just made her own couple of friends, I was being told all the time how I am having the best time without my son because i can do what i like and go out when i like etc etc.
Could anyone please offer me some advice on what to do in this situation.
Many thanks for taking the time to read this.
My ex and I technically broke up last October but were still living together due to financial circumstances and the fact we have a son together. She moved to Scotland in January of this year and has been there 3 weeks now. We were still in contact everyday with each other however some days it felt like we were talking as friends and other days she would ring just to have a pop at me or when she had a problem with something very simple in her house.
Yesterday after another of these phone calls where all she did was put me down I decided enough was enough and have initiated no contact except for speaking to my son or if it regards my son.
So not even 24hrs on and she has tried to ring 3 times already claiming it is important but nothing to do with my son. So i politely text her and say if its not to do with Troy (my son) then just text me. So she texts me and surprise surprise its not so important that she needed to ring me.
Anyways i text her the information she required and 10 minutes later my phone rings again, i again say to her to text and as a response i get this and i quote "Your being pathetic now, good job I have troy you would never let me see him i cant put it in text i need to ring"
We were together for 11 years and I know she has moved to Scotland and she has no family there and has only just made her own couple of friends, I was being told all the time how I am having the best time without my son because i can do what i like and go out when i like etc etc.
Could anyone please offer me some advice on what to do in this situation.
Many thanks for taking the time to read this.
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