I just found out last night that my husband isn't very into kissing. I mean,I suspected it but whenever I asked he always denied it. Last night he finally told me the truth.
This was only after I became upset over his lack of in person reaction to a little video I made him while I was home from work yesterday. He was VERY excited about it via text while he was at work. Then he got home.
I greeted him with passionate kisses and suggestive rubbing. He interrupted me and said "baby I have to pee really bad." Ok no biggie,go pee dear.
Once he was done he proceeds to go into the living room and sit on the couch to watch tv while I was making dinner. He never came back to pick up where we left off.
I was left really confused and hurt bc he seemed to excited about the video I guess I was hoping for more of an in person reaction from him. We've had the discussion many times that I want more personal interaction and intimacy from him in addition to having him just text about his excitement and feelings.
So we got into a discussion about it. As discussions do sometimes, this one covered a lot of topics quickly. That's when he revealed he has never really been into kissing.
Today I feel kinda lost. I figured I'd post and maybe get some good old fashion commiseration or whatever. There's not really anything to fix bc this is just who he is...I'm not looking to change his view on kissing.
This was only after I became upset over his lack of in person reaction to a little video I made him while I was home from work yesterday. He was VERY excited about it via text while he was at work. Then he got home.
I greeted him with passionate kisses and suggestive rubbing. He interrupted me and said "baby I have to pee really bad." Ok no biggie,go pee dear.
Once he was done he proceeds to go into the living room and sit on the couch to watch tv while I was making dinner. He never came back to pick up where we left off.
I was left really confused and hurt bc he seemed to excited about the video I guess I was hoping for more of an in person reaction from him. We've had the discussion many times that I want more personal interaction and intimacy from him in addition to having him just text about his excitement and feelings.
So we got into a discussion about it. As discussions do sometimes, this one covered a lot of topics quickly. That's when he revealed he has never really been into kissing.
Today I feel kinda lost. I figured I'd post and maybe get some good old fashion commiseration or whatever. There's not really anything to fix bc this is just who he is...I'm not looking to change his view on kissing.
Put the internet to work for you.
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