I have known this guy for quite a while and we hit it off from the word go. When we first met I was in a serious long term relationship and never considered this guy in a romantic way. My relationship broke down for other reasons, although it has been a long time coming.
A few months later someone told me that he liked me. We went out a couple of times and despite being initially hesitant, I had one of the best dates I've ever been on. Then we went on a night out with some other people and I got very very drunk. I misread the situation and kissed him, a few minutes later I was down a side street throwing up. I should probably add at this point what makes the situation more complicated is that he's my supervisor (there is no policy against colleague relationships as long as work isn't affected).
My actions put him way off (I don't blame him) but then I was involved in an accident and he obviously wanted to know I was ok and from there we started talking again. It's been great, but he keeps blowing hot and cold. A few weeks ago he asked if I wanted to go to the cinema and said he'd be back in touch in a few days with plans. I heard nothing so I text asking if he'd had chance to make plans and he still didn't reply. When he finally did reply he said that all the times conflicted with our work schedule so we wouldn't be able to go. I took this as him changing his mind so simply replied that it was fine and not to worry. Yet then he rearranged and this time asked me out for dinner as well. I couldn't make this occasion so asked if we could do the same the following week.
When we finally went out, he didn't ask if I wanted to go to lunch or anything and simply took me to the cinema and then brought me straight home. He hasn't been in touch with me since. I really think we could work well together but I'm sick and tired of not knowing where I stand. I would just call him out on it,but obviously we still have to work together. Should I just leave it and move on? Or is there something there? He is painfully shy and I wonder if this has anything to do with it? I'm changing jobs soon and have been given the chance to do a 6 month placement in glasgow before coming back here and I wonder if that has completely put him off me?
A few months later someone told me that he liked me. We went out a couple of times and despite being initially hesitant, I had one of the best dates I've ever been on. Then we went on a night out with some other people and I got very very drunk. I misread the situation and kissed him, a few minutes later I was down a side street throwing up. I should probably add at this point what makes the situation more complicated is that he's my supervisor (there is no policy against colleague relationships as long as work isn't affected).
My actions put him way off (I don't blame him) but then I was involved in an accident and he obviously wanted to know I was ok and from there we started talking again. It's been great, but he keeps blowing hot and cold. A few weeks ago he asked if I wanted to go to the cinema and said he'd be back in touch in a few days with plans. I heard nothing so I text asking if he'd had chance to make plans and he still didn't reply. When he finally did reply he said that all the times conflicted with our work schedule so we wouldn't be able to go. I took this as him changing his mind so simply replied that it was fine and not to worry. Yet then he rearranged and this time asked me out for dinner as well. I couldn't make this occasion so asked if we could do the same the following week.
When we finally went out, he didn't ask if I wanted to go to lunch or anything and simply took me to the cinema and then brought me straight home. He hasn't been in touch with me since. I really think we could work well together but I'm sick and tired of not knowing where I stand. I would just call him out on it,but obviously we still have to work together. Should I just leave it and move on? Or is there something there? He is painfully shy and I wonder if this has anything to do with it? I'm changing jobs soon and have been given the chance to do a 6 month placement in glasgow before coming back here and I wonder if that has completely put him off me?
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