Hi to all, I really need advice from anyone. I am I a 9 years marriage and we are in a sexless or almost sexless relationship. Well that is one of the problems.
Now that we had our second son, its going even worst. The pregnancy was high risk so we don't did it for 9 months and later was a wait for 3 or 4 months, so no sex for a year.
I take some time off from my job to help on the house and the baby, by then I need an knee operation, so I went to disability, and then, when I was fired, on unemployment. So I was at home the whole time, my wife too but, still no much sex.
She went back to work and I stay at home taking care of my two sons, I do not know much about housekeeping, but I do my best. I never was skinny, but I wasn't fat either, but staying at home, start to eat more. That's when I enter on the biggest problem i have. Every time she said no, I turn in to masturbation and food.
I talk with my wife about our problem, and she said that will try to be more open to sex, but like a lot of times, just last a couple of weeks.
So here I am, tired of masturbation, like 70 pounds overweight, taking care of mi two kids, the younger is 3 already, and feeling so close to quit and ask for divorce to my wife, but I love her so much, and my kids that I will her another chance.
Thank you.
Now that we had our second son, its going even worst. The pregnancy was high risk so we don't did it for 9 months and later was a wait for 3 or 4 months, so no sex for a year.
I take some time off from my job to help on the house and the baby, by then I need an knee operation, so I went to disability, and then, when I was fired, on unemployment. So I was at home the whole time, my wife too but, still no much sex.
She went back to work and I stay at home taking care of my two sons, I do not know much about housekeeping, but I do my best. I never was skinny, but I wasn't fat either, but staying at home, start to eat more. That's when I enter on the biggest problem i have. Every time she said no, I turn in to masturbation and food.
I talk with my wife about our problem, and she said that will try to be more open to sex, but like a lot of times, just last a couple of weeks.
So here I am, tired of masturbation, like 70 pounds overweight, taking care of mi two kids, the younger is 3 already, and feeling so close to quit and ask for divorce to my wife, but I love her so much, and my kids that I will her another chance.
Thank you.
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