| Okay, if you know my story good for you :) if not even better :) Recovering nice guy (=doormat), wife treating me with very little respect, a lot of yelling and accusing (which still accrues today although much less). Stopped being a "nice guy", became much more assertive, wife noticed changed and responded pretty good to it - although she still has many issues which are unrelated to me, but affect our marriage greatly. The thing is, I kind of became passive and that it in spite the fact that things got much better!!! I don't care so much anymore to buy her things, to make her happy (I had once a story of her rejecting a gift, and almost every time I tried to surprise her I kind of ended up suffering - so I have ZERO interest in doing that again. Although our sex life is a bit better, I am not so much attracted to her (she is very good looking) Etc. I feel that this is all from resentment built within me for years. I never let myself feel, but now that I do it's just come up so strong and full force. What do you think? What can/Should I do? | |||
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Now I am in the resentment phase
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