Ok, I just got done reading a post by a WS that thinks they shouldn't have to be transparent and should be able to do whatever they damn well feel like no matter how the BS feels about it. Pissed me off and I felt like responding to him, but it wasn't worth it and didn't want to hear his apologists pathetically try to defend his mindset.
The discussion wasn't even about an over bearing BS or expecting them to be on what some would consider house arrest. Just expecting him to not engage in any kind of activities that are not appropriate for a spouse, especially since he had proven he can't be trusted.
So not naming this person, don't try to guess who it is, because I have read that attitude by quite a lot of WSs.
So the question is, even for those BS that are trying to reconcile and will attempt to move mountains to make the marriage work....would you put up with this? And if they refused to be transparent or thought they still should be able to go out and party....would you still stay with them?
The discussion wasn't even about an over bearing BS or expecting them to be on what some would consider house arrest. Just expecting him to not engage in any kind of activities that are not appropriate for a spouse, especially since he had proven he can't be trusted.
So not naming this person, don't try to guess who it is, because I have read that attitude by quite a lot of WSs.
So the question is, even for those BS that are trying to reconcile and will attempt to move mountains to make the marriage work....would you put up with this? And if they refused to be transparent or thought they still should be able to go out and party....would you still stay with them?
Put the internet to work for you.
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