My ex boyfriend broke up with me a year ago and used to speak every now and then.
We was each others first serious relationship and was together 2 years.
He's started to contact me these last few months and this week he's started talking way more. I haven't really thought much about it.
But He was talking about how he's sorry for the way he treated me and realised i am a nice person and generally saying some rather nice stuff along with the odd questions about uni. (being as we used to be in the same class till i moved uni's last year)
But I haven't replied much this week due to me working and him having a gf. and i even said to him 'that i hope your gf is ok with you speaking to me.' he said that they aren't together at the moment because she apparently cheated on him and even if they was she wont care because he can talk to his friends if he wants too.
but last night i got a rude message on fb from his current girlfriend (even though i was told they aren't together) saying that i'm a dreadful bitch and should stop talking to him and respect her feelings.
Now i won't lie i can see where she's coming from as i can understand it being uncomfortable having your so called bf talking to their ex.
but i didn't know they was together and i haven't been speaking back in a way that i want him. because i don't.
What can i do about this situation?
I've stopped speaking to him, and he also messaged me last night to warned me that she messaged me on fb while i was at work and said that its all ok and stuff, she just got a bit upset that we was talking.
but she keeps messaging me some rather mean things, even though i have replied saying i'm sorry and that i'll stop speaking to him.
i then also told my ex that its best not to be in contact anymore.
but if there anything i can do?
and is the stuff she's doing ok?
(sorry if this was confusing i tried my best to explain the situation without rambling.)
We was each others first serious relationship and was together 2 years.
He's started to contact me these last few months and this week he's started talking way more. I haven't really thought much about it.
But He was talking about how he's sorry for the way he treated me and realised i am a nice person and generally saying some rather nice stuff along with the odd questions about uni. (being as we used to be in the same class till i moved uni's last year)
But I haven't replied much this week due to me working and him having a gf. and i even said to him 'that i hope your gf is ok with you speaking to me.' he said that they aren't together at the moment because she apparently cheated on him and even if they was she wont care because he can talk to his friends if he wants too.
but last night i got a rude message on fb from his current girlfriend (even though i was told they aren't together) saying that i'm a dreadful bitch and should stop talking to him and respect her feelings.
Now i won't lie i can see where she's coming from as i can understand it being uncomfortable having your so called bf talking to their ex.
but i didn't know they was together and i haven't been speaking back in a way that i want him. because i don't.
What can i do about this situation?
I've stopped speaking to him, and he also messaged me last night to warned me that she messaged me on fb while i was at work and said that its all ok and stuff, she just got a bit upset that we was talking.
but she keeps messaging me some rather mean things, even though i have replied saying i'm sorry and that i'll stop speaking to him.
i then also told my ex that its best not to be in contact anymore.
but if there anything i can do?
and is the stuff she's doing ok?
(sorry if this was confusing i tried my best to explain the situation without rambling.)
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