Desperately need advice on this!
Basically, here is the situation. I've been in the same class as this girl now for around 4 months (one lesson a week of Italian) and it is only in the last few weeks that I think I have developed deeper feelings for her. It's obvious that we get along well together and there is not a single quality about her that I find unattractive. The problem is this: I'm a first year student and she is second year so when I am in second year, she will be on her year abroad (in France). Essentially, the only chance I have of asking her out is within these next two months of summer semester and after that, I won't see her for another 2 years (because when she comes back from her year abroad, I will be going on mine). Thing is, I don't really want to ask her out because even if she does say yes, We would only have 2 months together and it wouldn't be fair on her when she goes away. I'm not worried about her finding a boyfriend in France or anything on her year abroad. I live in Wales and sh e lives in London so being together over the summer holidays would be difficult. So the question I ask is this: Do I just have to move on and accept that it won't work or should I try and tell her my feelings about her, and maybe we could still enjoy some time together? I wouldn't want her to feel guilty leaving me at uni when she goes away but at the same time I don't really want to let her go without telling her how I feel. I feel I have all the right qualities to make a relationship work and I know that she is not out of my league but the situation in hand (the year abroad) is making it difficult for me to make a move. Any advice?
Thanks :)
Basically, here is the situation. I've been in the same class as this girl now for around 4 months (one lesson a week of Italian) and it is only in the last few weeks that I think I have developed deeper feelings for her. It's obvious that we get along well together and there is not a single quality about her that I find unattractive. The problem is this: I'm a first year student and she is second year so when I am in second year, she will be on her year abroad (in France). Essentially, the only chance I have of asking her out is within these next two months of summer semester and after that, I won't see her for another 2 years (because when she comes back from her year abroad, I will be going on mine). Thing is, I don't really want to ask her out because even if she does say yes, We would only have 2 months together and it wouldn't be fair on her when she goes away. I'm not worried about her finding a boyfriend in France or anything on her year abroad. I live in Wales and sh e lives in London so being together over the summer holidays would be difficult. So the question I ask is this: Do I just have to move on and accept that it won't work or should I try and tell her my feelings about her, and maybe we could still enjoy some time together? I wouldn't want her to feel guilty leaving me at uni when she goes away but at the same time I don't really want to let her go without telling her how I feel. I feel I have all the right qualities to make a relationship work and I know that she is not out of my league but the situation in hand (the year abroad) is making it difficult for me to make a move. Any advice?
Thanks :)
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