Me and my NOW ex boyfriend, decided (at the time we were a couple) mutually to take a break, we had argued a lot over and over as well as other niggles ( not involving cheating though) and it was taking its toll on our relationship. HOWEVER, HE decided that during this period we remained exclusive to eachother so technically we were still together we would just be working on ourselves during this ' break period' too see where it would take our relationship, which i agreed too. I discovered during this period he had kissed another girl on a night out, through some photos that were posted online by the events photographer, as soon as i found out i was so hurt, i ended things with him right then and there. After this we did not speak for about a week and a half. We talked after this about the situation, and he was begging for me back, saying he was willing to give up everything for us to be toge ther again, he will get rid of his phone, change his number, delete photos, not go out, I would have access to everything of his etc as well as him saying he does not expect anything off me except this one shot, to let him prove himself that during our break was just a moment of weakness he was apparently ' hurt and in pain' and stupidly thought that going with someone else would change things. However, during this talk i decided to question him to see if he had gone any further, instantly i saw through him, and he confessed that the girl had giving him oral. HELP?!?!
Hes also willing to give up his trip to america that is already paid for, if it means me giving him another chance and staying together. He says he wont go out with anyone else if it helps me gain his trust back. im so confused. i feel very betrayed, and im not sure if i could get over this. i could try but i just don't know if he deserves this. TO MAKE THINGS CLEARER, he kissed the girl whilst exclusive to eachother but the Oral action was done when broken up.
Hes also willing to give up his trip to america that is already paid for, if it means me giving him another chance and staying together. He says he wont go out with anyone else if it helps me gain his trust back. im so confused. i feel very betrayed, and im not sure if i could get over this. i could try but i just don't know if he deserves this. TO MAKE THINGS CLEARER, he kissed the girl whilst exclusive to eachother but the Oral action was done when broken up.
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