So I'm a new user here and I just wanted some input on my current situation.
Wife is 24 and im 27
Anyway my wife went out of town to visit some old friends for a couple days, when she came home she didn't seem happy and I asked if everything was ok and she replied No and she was not happy. She was not happy about our marriage, which was kinda strange to me because this was all out of nowhere and there wasn't any signs of her being unhappy to the point of a separation. We "were" currently in contract of buying a house and i thought everything was fine. So anyway we talked about why she was so "unhappy" and she clearly stated that she cant be herself about me, she doesn't know who she is, or what really makes her unhappy. So Im still confused why she is unhappy and why she thinks that a trial separation is the right thing to do when it can be clearly worked on living together.
So we talked some more and I asked her is a trial separation really something that you want to do and she replied that she needed her space "alone" to clear her head and see if this is really what she wants in life..So she moved out the 1st of this month...To me we should be trying to repair our marriage and it seems like none of that is happening maybe its too early and she still needs more time. We try to talk when we can but when we talk all she talks about her going to parties, drinking a lot, all this stuff she has never done while we are together, the other night she took a guy home because he needed a ride home... Meanwhile I'm thinking in my head like we are still married, and your talking to other men, going to parties, and taking strangers home..... So anyway that's the current situation right now and i don't understand what she is doing and why she is doing that, I'm about ready to just give up on this whole thing because its clearly not fair to me as I'm not doing any of that stuff....I haven't talked to her about any of the stuff she is doing or why she is doing, i guess I'm waiting for the right moment....
Wife is 24 and im 27
Anyway my wife went out of town to visit some old friends for a couple days, when she came home she didn't seem happy and I asked if everything was ok and she replied No and she was not happy. She was not happy about our marriage, which was kinda strange to me because this was all out of nowhere and there wasn't any signs of her being unhappy to the point of a separation. We "were" currently in contract of buying a house and i thought everything was fine. So anyway we talked about why she was so "unhappy" and she clearly stated that she cant be herself about me, she doesn't know who she is, or what really makes her unhappy. So Im still confused why she is unhappy and why she thinks that a trial separation is the right thing to do when it can be clearly worked on living together.
So we talked some more and I asked her is a trial separation really something that you want to do and she replied that she needed her space "alone" to clear her head and see if this is really what she wants in life..So she moved out the 1st of this month...To me we should be trying to repair our marriage and it seems like none of that is happening maybe its too early and she still needs more time. We try to talk when we can but when we talk all she talks about her going to parties, drinking a lot, all this stuff she has never done while we are together, the other night she took a guy home because he needed a ride home... Meanwhile I'm thinking in my head like we are still married, and your talking to other men, going to parties, and taking strangers home..... So anyway that's the current situation right now and i don't understand what she is doing and why she is doing that, I'm about ready to just give up on this whole thing because its clearly not fair to me as I'm not doing any of that stuff....I haven't talked to her about any of the stuff she is doing or why she is doing, i guess I'm waiting for the right moment....
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