I now realize that "the fake thrills of pornography and masturbation" fills approax. 70-90% of my 16 year marriage, and has no appaerance of changing.
My marriage goes through ruts in sex. Sometimes it is 2-3 times a month, but sometimes only once...
I am in one of the dry speels.
I hate coming here for the "HIGH" verus "LOW" sex drive debate. It seems that for me, I gain no real sense of hope. I guess when I married young, I did not think about it. I expected sex and romance would get better.
I'm just frustrated.
Yes, I seem to have a higher sex drive than my wife.
Yes, it could be medical. We both have our own health issues.
Her complaint about me is going hot/cold emotionally... I admitt I can do that. I have been working on the whole mirror issues. She has noticed in last 5-10 years a much bigger and better improvement (in my attitude about not pressuring her about sex). She does not work on herself at all. Her health over all mentally, physically, and sexually health seems to do the opposite as mine!?!?
I'm just frustrated.
Anybody think I'm going to be able to make my marriage last once kids are gone?
I'm just frustrated.
My marriage goes through ruts in sex. Sometimes it is 2-3 times a month, but sometimes only once...
I am in one of the dry speels.
I hate coming here for the "HIGH" verus "LOW" sex drive debate. It seems that for me, I gain no real sense of hope. I guess when I married young, I did not think about it. I expected sex and romance would get better.
I'm just frustrated.
Yes, I seem to have a higher sex drive than my wife.
Yes, it could be medical. We both have our own health issues.
Her complaint about me is going hot/cold emotionally... I admitt I can do that. I have been working on the whole mirror issues. She has noticed in last 5-10 years a much bigger and better improvement (in my attitude about not pressuring her about sex). She does not work on herself at all. Her health over all mentally, physically, and sexually health seems to do the opposite as mine!?!?
I'm just frustrated.
Anybody think I'm going to be able to make my marriage last once kids are gone?
I'm just frustrated.
Put the internet to work for you.
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