Hi all! My husband and I have been married for 8 years. Throughout the marriage I've grown used to the fact that he NEVER compliments anything I do or anything about me. He never does anything around the house. I do every single thing by myself which makes me pretty bitter. He's a pretty negative person generally. Always quick to point out the things I do wrong...never notices the good things and gives a simple "Thank you for cooking, that was good" or "thanks for getting that grease stain out of my shirt", etc. Those are the kinds of compliments I'm looking for....not telling me I'm beautiful...That stopped in the first year of marriage.
I begged "can you please say something nice to me occasionally?" about 6 months ago and I've tried to lead by example to compliment him by telling him I'm proud of him when something goes good for him at work...I've told him he's handsome several times in the last few months. I do everything he asks me to do for him without complaining. I'm just tired of not feeling loved and because of that I just don't feel like I love him anymore. Am I crazy?
I begged "can you please say something nice to me occasionally?" about 6 months ago and I've tried to lead by example to compliment him by telling him I'm proud of him when something goes good for him at work...I've told him he's handsome several times in the last few months. I do everything he asks me to do for him without complaining. I'm just tired of not feeling loved and because of that I just don't feel like I love him anymore. Am I crazy?
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