New to this forum, but needing help.
Been married 18 years, married older in life, and no children. We do, however have 3 dogs. Middle class, both work, no money issues, but, he has become a blob. We haven't gone on a vacation since our 10 year anniversary, which was my idea. We used to go on short trips, but he refuses to go anywhere with me, except out to eat or the grocery store. If it's not something to do with the dogs, eating, or sex, he is NOT interested. He sits in the den, I sit in the living room. I guess I'm realizing after all these years, that we really don't have much in common. I am 58, he is 61, and I really don't want to spend the "golden years" sitting in the house with him, and waiting to die. I do go on vacations with the girls, and he doesn't have a problem with that. I would love to go with him. We went places before we married, but not now. I just feel so alone. Can't seem to have a serious conversation, (except about the dogs). He quit drinking about 1 1/2 years ago since th at really was a problem for me. No movies, no church, no anywhere. He could be happy with two sticks and a rock, but I need more. Any ideas? Thanks.
Been married 18 years, married older in life, and no children. We do, however have 3 dogs. Middle class, both work, no money issues, but, he has become a blob. We haven't gone on a vacation since our 10 year anniversary, which was my idea. We used to go on short trips, but he refuses to go anywhere with me, except out to eat or the grocery store. If it's not something to do with the dogs, eating, or sex, he is NOT interested. He sits in the den, I sit in the living room. I guess I'm realizing after all these years, that we really don't have much in common. I am 58, he is 61, and I really don't want to spend the "golden years" sitting in the house with him, and waiting to die. I do go on vacations with the girls, and he doesn't have a problem with that. I would love to go with him. We went places before we married, but not now. I just feel so alone. Can't seem to have a serious conversation, (except about the dogs). He quit drinking about 1 1/2 years ago since th at really was a problem for me. No movies, no church, no anywhere. He could be happy with two sticks and a rock, but I need more. Any ideas? Thanks.
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