I am so sick of my STBXH and the abandonment I have had to live through. The statement - if you really want to know who a person is...watch them through a divorce is the most truthful statement.
It was horrible enough that I have had to survive a marriage with affairs, mistress calling me, 2 yr separation with many ex delays and 18 yr marriage over, but find it has been equally maddening to deal with a spouse who has completely went dark. It would be easier legally if he was dead. He ignores emails, doesn't pay the bills, hardly calls his child, completely walked away from all the marriage debt, hasn't paid his taxes, gambled tens of thousands cash away on horses and then has the balls to send me a nasty email last night when I asked a question about our joint credit card.
He claims in the email that he is broke, has all these bills created by me and how I set him up to fail and that I bled him dry.
If he was in the room I would have stabbed him. Normally I just delete these delusional emails but last night hit a nerve.
Anyone else have a spouse who re-writes all marital history and is completely delusional and blames you for everything??
PS - this man who claimed in therapy that I emasculated him and made him feel bad about himself when I would start a conversation about our budget now has a sugar mama who is paying for him to travel with her, pays the dinner bills, gives him money to buy cigars or clothes BUT I emasculated him.
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It was horrible enough that I have had to survive a marriage with affairs, mistress calling me, 2 yr separation with many ex delays and 18 yr marriage over, but find it has been equally maddening to deal with a spouse who has completely went dark. It would be easier legally if he was dead. He ignores emails, doesn't pay the bills, hardly calls his child, completely walked away from all the marriage debt, hasn't paid his taxes, gambled tens of thousands cash away on horses and then has the balls to send me a nasty email last night when I asked a question about our joint credit card.
He claims in the email that he is broke, has all these bills created by me and how I set him up to fail and that I bled him dry.
If he was in the room I would have stabbed him. Normally I just delete these delusional emails but last night hit a nerve.
Anyone else have a spouse who re-writes all marital history and is completely delusional and blames you for everything??
PS - this man who claimed in therapy that I emasculated him and made him feel bad about himself when I would start a conversation about our budget now has a sugar mama who is paying for him to travel with her, pays the dinner bills, gives him money to buy cigars or clothes BUT I emasculated him.
:mad:
Put the internet to work for you.
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