I am just recently married, about 2 months. I just found out that while my husband and I were exclusively dating, he was carrying on another relationship with someone else. In fact he was with the other woman first and then met me shortly after they had started dating. He had introduced me to his family, as he did with her as well......during the same timeframe. He was dating (and sleeping) with the both of us at the same time. I get that he picked me, that he married me and I believe that he is faithful to me now.....but I can not get past this feeling of hurt and betrayal. If I had known back when were just dating, I would have never stayed with him. Looking back on it now, there were major red flags but I was so in love and thought that he was the one, so I ignored those red flags. I just found out recently because I was looking thru his email to find his internet radio account information to update the billing and I came across emails from wh en he and I were dating (exclusively). I found an itinerary for a trip he took with the other woman to NYC. I asked him who this woman was and he said just someone he was casually dating. I then asked him if he was casually dating her then why was he in NYC with her when we were officially together. He now says he doesn't want to talk about it and basically just shuts down. I really don't know what to do here. All I am left to do is assume. Which is never a good thing. What do you all think?
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