I must be a magnet for all the crazy's and cheaters out there! I'm on a couple of well known dating sites where the men AND women are suppose to be SINGLE. I always felt that when a person is on a dating site for singles.....that was suppose to imply - "Unattached". Apparently not.
Not only do I seem find the men (or they find me) that are still dating someone, living with someone and or married, but now I have their crazy bleeping girlfriends/wives stalking me, texting and or emailing me. Some of the men I've never even met in person. Other's after chatting online thru that particular dating sites email and messenger programs, I graduated thinking I knew them well enough to "friend" them on FB. So, the chatting continues thru FB before possibly meeting face-to-face. Figuring that on FB you may get a feel for what that person is really like. Also, you get to know their friends. The saying is true, "Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are".
However, the crazy girlfriends (whom I'm unaware of) know their boyfriends access codes and now I'm getting weird texts on my phone, odd "friend" requests on FB and emails etc. I'm in business, and I'm in the public eye, I'm not difficult to find, but this is just ridiculous. I've not solicited these men, and how was I to know that there was someone else in the picture? Now I'm the bad guy??? Really? What happened to honesty? Where are the real single men? Where do women meet good honest "unattached" men?
I had never heard of Meetup.com before Sept of 2013. But I joined a group last September 2013 and unfortunately didn't really attend any functions until this year because of work schedules and weather. But now, I'm finding that going out with these clubs and organizations to their events is quite exciting and gives a person something to look forward to. I think that even though being newly divorced, I was needing to be with people in the worst way. After being married for nearly 21 years, I missed having that someone special around.
Well, I found friendship among the members of the clubs I've joined. I share common interests with those members and I'm meeting people face to face. This is so much better than sifting thru the myriad of liars on the dating sites. At some point I might meet someone special in one of the clubs. I'm not off the dating sites because they too have single EVENTS where you can actually meet people. But the Meetup.com clubs are a wise choice!!
Not only do I seem find the men (or they find me) that are still dating someone, living with someone and or married, but now I have their crazy bleeping girlfriends/wives stalking me, texting and or emailing me. Some of the men I've never even met in person. Other's after chatting online thru that particular dating sites email and messenger programs, I graduated thinking I knew them well enough to "friend" them on FB. So, the chatting continues thru FB before possibly meeting face-to-face. Figuring that on FB you may get a feel for what that person is really like. Also, you get to know their friends. The saying is true, "Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are".
However, the crazy girlfriends (whom I'm unaware of) know their boyfriends access codes and now I'm getting weird texts on my phone, odd "friend" requests on FB and emails etc. I'm in business, and I'm in the public eye, I'm not difficult to find, but this is just ridiculous. I've not solicited these men, and how was I to know that there was someone else in the picture? Now I'm the bad guy??? Really? What happened to honesty? Where are the real single men? Where do women meet good honest "unattached" men?
I had never heard of Meetup.com before Sept of 2013. But I joined a group last September 2013 and unfortunately didn't really attend any functions until this year because of work schedules and weather. But now, I'm finding that going out with these clubs and organizations to their events is quite exciting and gives a person something to look forward to. I think that even though being newly divorced, I was needing to be with people in the worst way. After being married for nearly 21 years, I missed having that someone special around.
Well, I found friendship among the members of the clubs I've joined. I share common interests with those members and I'm meeting people face to face. This is so much better than sifting thru the myriad of liars on the dating sites. At some point I might meet someone special in one of the clubs. I'm not off the dating sites because they too have single EVENTS where you can actually meet people. But the Meetup.com clubs are a wise choice!!
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