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I have been seeing this guy for 5 months and officially dating for three. Now I am 18, he is 19 and we live 1hr 30 minutes away. It was great at the start and he would make the effort and phone loads and all sorts, just happy. Since the end of january it's started to deteriorate and ending up with me telling him I will end it if he didn't get his game together. Various situations have happened e.g. him calling me horrible things on a night out in front of his friends cause i asked for my phone, him leaving me at his friends for 2hrs to pick up weed then ditch me to smoke up... and the list is endless really. Recently it's got so bad to the point where he will chose nights out over me and waste his money. He's never treated me to anything and won't do anything unless I ask and even then, no. Sounds like a dick but I love him.
Yesterday I finally got the courage to break up with him and it's broken me. He went out last night to get drunk after telling me he would make the effort to win me back and he would call me but instead he did neither. And when I text him at 1am saying "Nice how we only broke up a few hrs ago and you have no care in the world but to party and have a laugh when I am at home crying" and he replied an hr later saying "I'm out."
I keep giving him all these chances and want him to prove to me he loves me cause when it's good, it's great! Just so sick and tired of being messed around and need some advice. He wants me to come over Friday, which I need to see him to get my stuff anyway, but what if it just goes back to the constant ultimatum with no change?
I have been seeing this guy for 5 months and officially dating for three. Now I am 18, he is 19 and we live 1hr 30 minutes away. It was great at the start and he would make the effort and phone loads and all sorts, just happy. Since the end of january it's started to deteriorate and ending up with me telling him I will end it if he didn't get his game together. Various situations have happened e.g. him calling me horrible things on a night out in front of his friends cause i asked for my phone, him leaving me at his friends for 2hrs to pick up weed then ditch me to smoke up... and the list is endless really. Recently it's got so bad to the point where he will chose nights out over me and waste his money. He's never treated me to anything and won't do anything unless I ask and even then, no. Sounds like a dick but I love him.
Yesterday I finally got the courage to break up with him and it's broken me. He went out last night to get drunk after telling me he would make the effort to win me back and he would call me but instead he did neither. And when I text him at 1am saying "Nice how we only broke up a few hrs ago and you have no care in the world but to party and have a laugh when I am at home crying" and he replied an hr later saying "I'm out."
I keep giving him all these chances and want him to prove to me he loves me cause when it's good, it's great! Just so sick and tired of being messed around and need some advice. He wants me to come over Friday, which I need to see him to get my stuff anyway, but what if it just goes back to the constant ultimatum with no change?
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