Honesty is another important element needed in any relationship for it to grow stronger and healthier,yes we all say that we are honest people but when reality sets in we try to compromise on our honesty,and when it comes to relationships it's another ball game.
Sometimes in your relationship you pretend,trying to make your partner feel good about yourselves and the relationship,while you know you have something that eats you up something they do in the relationship that pains you whenever they do it(you know those things)with this you are not truthful and lovable to your partner.Honesty can't go with pretenses,if you love and care for your partner you will like them to know how you feel at a particular time with them or on something,and that will help them to adjust or change the way they behave or do things if only your partner has a sense of humour,honesty has the power to change bad condition to a good condition only if you believe.
Honesty helps you to pure out your true feelings when it comes to relationships,and also it gives you both room for compromise and understanding of each other,because sometimes you do things because your partner is not honest and open to you,and you try to hurt them a little for that without them knowing why you are behaving the way you behave,but when you rightly pure out your feelings it will save the relationship some pains of misunderstandings,and with this you both can now understand the problem and compromise on it to find a possible solution to it.
Lack of honesty sometimes cases misunderstandings in a relationship,and one thing about pretense is that you end up attracting fake partners and also you will end up with partners who hite and pretend their true feelings,and you will end up being in a fake relationship.
Also honesty helps you not to lie to your partner,because when you are honest to your partner you will always tell them the truth,though sometimes it pains to say the truth but also it pays to say the truth,because when you do you pure out your true feelings and that shows you love your partner because is only when you love someone you let them know the truth and also that you value your relationship,so honesty helps to limit the amount of lies or to stop it in any relationship.And if you are with someone that understands the importances of honesty in a relationship,the person will be happy and fully to have you,honesty gives you a clear vision on what you want and what you don't what in your relationship.
It also enhances trust in any relationship,honesty is the back bone of trust when you are honest to your partner,what others say about your relationship or your partner won't break the relationship you have with your partner,rather it will make you both stronger for each other because you trust your partner not to do what they said they did,the reason is because they are always honest and open to you and that will make you to have nothing to fear for.
Honesty builds up intimacy in any relationship,because when you are honest to your partner it will make them to always want to be with you,share their problems with you because you will tell them the honest truth about their problems and how to solve it,and also not being afraid of your personality or what you will say when they open up to you,because they know you won't be quick to judge them but first to see it from their own point of view before you say anything,honesty helps partners to intimately love each other deeper.
One of the ways to have honesty in your relationships, is for you to be honest to yourself(self acceptance)with this you will be able to attract a honest partner,and also start your first date with honest conversations it will help you both to build honesty in the relationship,because if you start being honest from the first date when you go into the relationship it will be part of you and you won't find it hard to open up to your partner,because this is how you both have been before the relationship.
Why we find it hard to be honest sometimes is that,we don't introduced it earlier enough in our relationships and also we are not honest to ourselves.So this is the path to true,a authentic love and unlimited power to face anything in life.The fear of honesty is the fear of true love, because in true love you must be honest to your partner and this might be why you avoid true partnership,friendship and relationship all this years and it is your time to become free and open up to the love that has been waiting for you.:smthumbup:
Sometimes in your relationship you pretend,trying to make your partner feel good about yourselves and the relationship,while you know you have something that eats you up something they do in the relationship that pains you whenever they do it(you know those things)with this you are not truthful and lovable to your partner.Honesty can't go with pretenses,if you love and care for your partner you will like them to know how you feel at a particular time with them or on something,and that will help them to adjust or change the way they behave or do things if only your partner has a sense of humour,honesty has the power to change bad condition to a good condition only if you believe.
Honesty helps you to pure out your true feelings when it comes to relationships,and also it gives you both room for compromise and understanding of each other,because sometimes you do things because your partner is not honest and open to you,and you try to hurt them a little for that without them knowing why you are behaving the way you behave,but when you rightly pure out your feelings it will save the relationship some pains of misunderstandings,and with this you both can now understand the problem and compromise on it to find a possible solution to it.
Lack of honesty sometimes cases misunderstandings in a relationship,and one thing about pretense is that you end up attracting fake partners and also you will end up with partners who hite and pretend their true feelings,and you will end up being in a fake relationship.
Also honesty helps you not to lie to your partner,because when you are honest to your partner you will always tell them the truth,though sometimes it pains to say the truth but also it pays to say the truth,because when you do you pure out your true feelings and that shows you love your partner because is only when you love someone you let them know the truth and also that you value your relationship,so honesty helps to limit the amount of lies or to stop it in any relationship.And if you are with someone that understands the importances of honesty in a relationship,the person will be happy and fully to have you,honesty gives you a clear vision on what you want and what you don't what in your relationship.
It also enhances trust in any relationship,honesty is the back bone of trust when you are honest to your partner,what others say about your relationship or your partner won't break the relationship you have with your partner,rather it will make you both stronger for each other because you trust your partner not to do what they said they did,the reason is because they are always honest and open to you and that will make you to have nothing to fear for.
Honesty builds up intimacy in any relationship,because when you are honest to your partner it will make them to always want to be with you,share their problems with you because you will tell them the honest truth about their problems and how to solve it,and also not being afraid of your personality or what you will say when they open up to you,because they know you won't be quick to judge them but first to see it from their own point of view before you say anything,honesty helps partners to intimately love each other deeper.
One of the ways to have honesty in your relationships, is for you to be honest to yourself(self acceptance)with this you will be able to attract a honest partner,and also start your first date with honest conversations it will help you both to build honesty in the relationship,because if you start being honest from the first date when you go into the relationship it will be part of you and you won't find it hard to open up to your partner,because this is how you both have been before the relationship.
Why we find it hard to be honest sometimes is that,we don't introduced it earlier enough in our relationships and also we are not honest to ourselves.So this is the path to true,a authentic love and unlimited power to face anything in life.The fear of honesty is the fear of true love, because in true love you must be honest to your partner and this might be why you avoid true partnership,friendship and relationship all this years and it is your time to become free and open up to the love that has been waiting for you.:smthumbup:
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