Hey people,
I met this girl on a night out a few weeks ago, we kissed, exchanged numbers and that's as far as it went. She goes uni where I live back home, while I go to a completely different one and live away. We've been texting since we met quite a lot and it's become a bit intense. We agreed last week not to meet/get with anyone else untill we see each other again(I'm home next week). She only split up with her ex 2 months ago and I found out last week she still misses/missed him, turns out a couple of days ago she travelled 5 hours to where he is based in the army to pick up some clothes etc and arrived at 20:00pm knowing it would take her another 5 hours to get home. She didn't reply to my text at 20:00pm till 9am the next morning and claimed that she didn't stay at her ex's and got the train home. I questioned her numerous times
about this and she's swears that she never stopped or anything happened, only wants me, can't wait to see me etc. she even pulled out 'do you want to ask my ex yourself' but I think she knew I was always gonna say no. We fell out a few days before she saw her ex over her still missing him and she claims that she was in tears because she thought I finished it and said she'd never go back to her ex because he hurt her so much( cheated on her). She claims she's the type who has a lot more guy friends because girls are drama. She says she hardly ever gets approached on nights out (which I'm not sure because she's a decent looking girl) and if she does she tells then were to go! I might be reading into this too much but her top 3 snapchatters are all lads and one of them likes pretty much every photo of her on Facebook and Instagram. I just don't want to look like a mug here, like I've knocked back meeting/getting with girls since we said we wouldn't and I've already told her some really serious personal stuff about my family and don't want to carry things on if she's been playing me all this time! I just don't know what to think atm, we're planning to see each other at the end of next week when I'm home but i want to know the truth now because I'm not interested in taking to her if she has messed me about!
Any thoughts and advice is welcome!
Thanks
I met this girl on a night out a few weeks ago, we kissed, exchanged numbers and that's as far as it went. She goes uni where I live back home, while I go to a completely different one and live away. We've been texting since we met quite a lot and it's become a bit intense. We agreed last week not to meet/get with anyone else untill we see each other again(I'm home next week). She only split up with her ex 2 months ago and I found out last week she still misses/missed him, turns out a couple of days ago she travelled 5 hours to where he is based in the army to pick up some clothes etc and arrived at 20:00pm knowing it would take her another 5 hours to get home. She didn't reply to my text at 20:00pm till 9am the next morning and claimed that she didn't stay at her ex's and got the train home. I questioned her numerous times
about this and she's swears that she never stopped or anything happened, only wants me, can't wait to see me etc. she even pulled out 'do you want to ask my ex yourself' but I think she knew I was always gonna say no. We fell out a few days before she saw her ex over her still missing him and she claims that she was in tears because she thought I finished it and said she'd never go back to her ex because he hurt her so much( cheated on her). She claims she's the type who has a lot more guy friends because girls are drama. She says she hardly ever gets approached on nights out (which I'm not sure because she's a decent looking girl) and if she does she tells then were to go! I might be reading into this too much but her top 3 snapchatters are all lads and one of them likes pretty much every photo of her on Facebook and Instagram. I just don't want to look like a mug here, like I've knocked back meeting/getting with girls since we said we wouldn't and I've already told her some really serious personal stuff about my family and don't want to carry things on if she's been playing me all this time! I just don't know what to think atm, we're planning to see each other at the end of next week when I'm home but i want to know the truth now because I'm not interested in taking to her if she has messed me about!
Any thoughts and advice is welcome!
Thanks
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