So I have posted on here a few times for advice. I appreciate all the advice I have been given so let me start off by saying thank you. A little background.... I was told the famous line "I love you but I am not in love wit you", as well as I don't know if I even ever loved you after 13 years and 3 children. My H and I have never had any problems in our marriage. Overall it was great and things go rocky August 2013 when I found out he was texting a female coworker and took a personal day with her. Everyone suggested an emotional affair which I know is now true. She just filed for divorce a few weeks ago from her H because of an affair. Now this past Friday I was told about an app through ATT where you can download text messages. Well I did and did it under my H phone number so that the messages came both to my phone and his. He has no clue since there were no alerts or anything to tip him off. I have been reading their conversations back in forth since th en am I am just SICK. It all started Friday about 5pm and he told her he enjoyed the short time they got to hang out that day and they never stop thinking about each other ect. Then on Saturday he sent the text that hurt the most....I LOVE YOU!
The conversation continued late discussing trying to find a place to live together big enough for their childen to come visit and stay at times and so on. Yesterday they discussed how maybe she can show up to one of our sons baseball games and I wouldnt know. She does not know that I know who she is or what she looks like. He left yesterday at 5:30 came home @ 10:30pm wrecking of purfume. Todays texts were that she doesnt feel bad he is so tired and thanks for dinner last night. She is 14 years older then my H. I am shocked but not shocked at the same time if that makes sense. My guy has told me all along.
Now I want to confront him since he has denied this the entire time and as recent as Friday prior to me seeing the messages. He has no clue I know everything I know. The next problem is is that he shared with me that she is trying to take her husband for everything he has in their divorce, do I send him a copy of these messages? This has clearly been going on for quite sometime. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
I am and have been doing the 180 for about a month or so. I will be filing for D this week.
The conversation continued late discussing trying to find a place to live together big enough for their childen to come visit and stay at times and so on. Yesterday they discussed how maybe she can show up to one of our sons baseball games and I wouldnt know. She does not know that I know who she is or what she looks like. He left yesterday at 5:30 came home @ 10:30pm wrecking of purfume. Todays texts were that she doesnt feel bad he is so tired and thanks for dinner last night. She is 14 years older then my H. I am shocked but not shocked at the same time if that makes sense. My guy has told me all along.
Now I want to confront him since he has denied this the entire time and as recent as Friday prior to me seeing the messages. He has no clue I know everything I know. The next problem is is that he shared with me that she is trying to take her husband for everything he has in their divorce, do I send him a copy of these messages? This has clearly been going on for quite sometime. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
I am and have been doing the 180 for about a month or so. I will be filing for D this week.
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