Thoughts??
I am new here and have never been through a divorce or a marrital infidelity...I have not had an EA or a PA with anyone since I started dating my wife...so I am ignorant of the emotions a BS goes through
But I notice this a lot...complete hatred, wanting to destoy their lives, often while R'ing with the WS...is this really a healthy way to direct the anger?? I understand its gotta go somewhere, but honestly the cheater is the person who brought the hell down on their family, the om or ow was just the warm body they cheated with...
if the om or ow ALSO has a BS, then I totally understand letting them know, as THEY are also cheaters and dont deserve a free pass...but to try and get them fired, beat them up or kill them LOL...all the while sending the WS flowers, making them nice meals, rubbing their feet, basically trying to woo them back...I dont know if I could do that :scratchhead::scratchhead:
this is NOT a judgement on anyone...I admit ignorance to what a BS feels, oh I can guess from what Ive seen and read, but unless ive been there, I am ignorant of it...just wonderin what others think about this :)
I am new here and have never been through a divorce or a marrital infidelity...I have not had an EA or a PA with anyone since I started dating my wife...so I am ignorant of the emotions a BS goes through
But I notice this a lot...complete hatred, wanting to destoy their lives, often while R'ing with the WS...is this really a healthy way to direct the anger?? I understand its gotta go somewhere, but honestly the cheater is the person who brought the hell down on their family, the om or ow was just the warm body they cheated with...
if the om or ow ALSO has a BS, then I totally understand letting them know, as THEY are also cheaters and dont deserve a free pass...but to try and get them fired, beat them up or kill them LOL...all the while sending the WS flowers, making them nice meals, rubbing their feet, basically trying to woo them back...I dont know if I could do that :scratchhead::scratchhead:
this is NOT a judgement on anyone...I admit ignorance to what a BS feels, oh I can guess from what Ive seen and read, but unless ive been there, I am ignorant of it...just wonderin what others think about this :)
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