I have a very complex situation. I got married a little over a year ago. We had both been married before. My kids are grown but he was a late starter and he has a 14 year old son and a 10 year old son. The 14 year old son lives with us because he has custody. He's a very quite well mannered young man. The 10 year old lives with his ex. Shortly after we got married his ex-wife filed a false report with CPS stating we didn't give the 10 year old his medicine will he was having an asthma attack and made accusations of drugs and alcohol. Apparently unbenonce to me this is something she has a history of doing when she gets mad at someone. We went through all that and it was unfounded. It was at that point it was decoded that since I hold a medical license and issues such as this can make me loose my license that my husband would see his son outside of our home. In December I became very ill. I was put on chemo and 26 other medications. Here it is 9 month later and I'm finally able to leave my house without having to wear a mask. NO I DO NOT HAVE CANCER. What I have is a very unique set of auto-immune disorders. These disorders cause extreme pain, lose of vision for weeks, horrible headache. They are called flares. The main cause of flares is stress. Here comes the good part. The ex-wife is now homeless. She lied and her and the 10 year old are living in a battered women's shelter (she said her boyfriend beat her up). The 10 year old is not in school. He has been out of school for 2 weeks now. She will not tell us where the location of the shelter is dud to safety rules. My husband asked what she was gonna do as she only has 31 days there and her plan is to hop shelter to shelter. All this is very bad for the 10 year old but here's where it get hairy. He absolutely can not come live with us. The very sight of this boy literally makes me have a panic attack. He is rude, disobedient and for me the stress is to much. I can not afford to be back in the hospital. I love my husband and will not ask him to choose, I can't do that. The only thing I know to do is separate. His first responsibility is his child and mine is my health and I know him and he won't get his son and leave me so I'm gonna have to be the bad guy. I'm so lost any suggestion
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