I'm having a hard time understanding whether I should be actively seeking a relationship or just letting it happen naturally.
I have no problem going down either route but people seem to give conflicting information - some say wait because when you're least expecting it to happen it will, but then others say if you're not making the effort to find someone it'll be less likely to happen because you'll be meeting less people.
Both make sense to me, so I don't know what I should be doing. I was last in a relationship getting on three years ago now and i'm not getting any younger.
Basically i'm lost. Should I be trying to arrange dates regularly or should I keep myself distracted so it's not constantly on my mind and just wait for it to happen like people say it will?
I have no problem going down either route but people seem to give conflicting information - some say wait because when you're least expecting it to happen it will, but then others say if you're not making the effort to find someone it'll be less likely to happen because you'll be meeting less people.
Both make sense to me, so I don't know what I should be doing. I was last in a relationship getting on three years ago now and i'm not getting any younger.
Basically i'm lost. Should I be trying to arrange dates regularly or should I keep myself distracted so it's not constantly on my mind and just wait for it to happen like people say it will?
Put the internet to work for you.
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