Why does HE want reassurance???

So, if you've read My Month of Hell so Far, then you know my story, or part of it. WH has cut off contact with OW, I was a part of that. He is trying to take responsibility---not hard enough in my opinion---still resents the "invasion of his privacy," and still lashes out about that sometimes. But I can see that he is making efforts and is starting to re-engage in our marriage. Why the heck is he texting me and getting upset if I don't respond right away? Why is he asking me if I still love him? Why is he asking me if we're going to make it? Why is he asking for compliments? Is this the result of cutting things off with OW and my distant attitude towards him? Is it the result of my 180? In the past week, I have gone out by myself, gotten my hair and nails done, gotten together with girlfriends, and have stopped coddling him. Is this why he is needing reassurance? I want reassurance. Is this his way of giving it to me? Others have gone through this, right?

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