| Hi, registered to these forums just to post this specifically. Background: I'm 29, my GF is 27. been together 5 months. I've had mannyyy girlfriends up till the age of 23. then went single for 6 years till i met her. she was the type to date around constantly, but only had 2 boyfriends cus she's extremely picky. it's been my life long dream since i was a kid to get married, and raise a happy family. i finally found a woman that i feel fits my every need and criteria in a potential wife; trust-worthy and always makes sure to make me feel secure, a very good hearted woman, close with her family, strong personality and individuality, spontaneous, supports herself and makes good money, very caring and always there and got my back. pretty much feels likes my best friend in the opposite gender. my roll dog. and is very loyal.. she emphasizes this and i see it with her relationships with her friends and family. now.. i've seen all the stories before (i like to read reddit.com/r/relationships).. the "i'm so in love and my girlfriend is perfect and i want to marry her stories BUT... if i were to think of a bad thing.....the only thing i can think of is that when she parties and drinks, she gets a little wild, but she always calls me or comes home to me and makes sure to never let me worry and emphasizes that she's the most trust-worthy person, always telling me everything.. just never lets me worry. she really emphasizes this. i know it's only been 5 months, but we've never had a serious fight. when we do bicker (very rare) it ends shortly and get over it. we have the same ideals, though we're opposite in many ways, but it works out so well because our personalities complement each other. and we both communicate openly as we both feel it's the base of a healthy relationship. she's very outspoken and i always say what's on my mind if something concerns me i've mentioned my dreams of getting married.. my ideals of a famiy and she felt mutual...then i started eventually hinting at them to see what she felt.. and it was always mutual.. and just the other day.. i texted her saying "you know i'm going to marry you one day" and she replied saying "good, cus i feel the same. if you were to ask me to marry you today i'd say yes". she's a occupational therapist and she's going to be a traveling occupational therapist soon and she'll be gone for months at a time starting late this year. something that she's always wanted to do before i even met her, and i'll never stop someone from wanting to do what will make them happy and their dreams... but i would like to tie the knot before she travels she mentioned how if she were gonna get married.. she would want it spontaneous, like a drive-thru wedding in vegas.. and well..we happened to have a vegas trip planned next month and have been thinking long and hard about asking her to marry me and doing it right then and there on the spot. All my life since I was young, this is what i wanted.. and i really want to do this ... so sorry for the long post but this is my question to everyone here: 1) does anyone have any success stories of getting married after just a short period of time and it blossoming into a wonderful, happy marriage? i'm mostly interested in this. 2) does anyone have any stories of getting married after a short period of time and completely regretting it? (must have at least a similar story... thinking that their SO was really and truly the one for them) 3) convince me that this is a good idea, or convince me that i should wait and i'm being retarded (as i know it's the common consensus to wait for years to see if a relationship is really marriage worthy) sorry for such a long post, thanks for reading. looking forward to everyone's input | |||
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Thinking of marrying my SO after only have been together for 5 months
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