| Hello, So to start, I would consider myself pretty LD. Now I wonder to myself, am I really LD or just not that attracted to my husband? For pretty much my entire marriage, I have to imagine someone else while having sex in order to become aroused. It can actually be just about anyone other than my husband! If I didn't do this i don't think I could ever 'O'. We have sex on average about once a month, and it's usually him initiating. Sometimes when he wants it he turns to porn because he doesn't want to bother asking me for any. I think if he started taking care of himself better it might boost my attraction for him. For example, showing he cares about his health by exercising, stopping the binge eating on junk food etc... Also he needs to stop talking constantly about (and executing in front of me) his bodily functions. I tell him all the time it is a turn off but he laughs at me and continues. He also spends most of his time laying in bed or on the couch on his ipad, for hours at a time. He has mild depression, and spends a lot of time complaining and self-loathing. Not very attractive. What can I do? | |||
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