| Early back in January I found evidence that my wife was cheating on me. I found this in the form of emails from an ad she opened up on Craigslist saying she was looking for a f$ckbuddy because her current casual just got a girlfriend. I talked to my pastor and we confronted her together. She said she didn't cheat, but she was just about to that night. She said the reason why she did it was because I am not adventuresome in bed. She stated that she wants multiple partners and would like me to have a threesome. She told me she would stop talking to the guys and pull the ad and talk to our pastor for further guidance. She went to the pastor and talked to him next week, that night she came home and told me that she hasn't been honest that she cheated on me with a guy at work. Some background here, I work during the day. She works at night at McDonalds. We have 2 kids, one 3 and the other 4, she works this way so we don't have to pay daycare. After she told me she had an affair she said it wouldn't happen again and she was going to seek counseling. After this she started having sex with me 3-4 times a day for almost 2-3 weeks. I also started staying up nights waiting for her until she gets home from work (anywhere from 1-3AM) I started seeing a therapist and she started seeing a therapist. Then one day out of the blue I get a text "Good thing I didn't kiss you, someone from our church just walked by". I was at work and just went home and confronted her. She said she meant to send that to this other guy that she had cheated on me with. She said she would like to keep me and her family and have this guy on the side. I told her that it cannot go on like that. She said she would stop. Then pretty much the sex stopped with me. I noticed that she started coming home a bit later, she always has an excuse. Slow managers or she was talking to one of the girls at work. I have noticed that she is also texting and keeping her phone covered. I looked on Verizon's website and see her texting someone constantly. I googled the number and it is the same guy that she cheated on me with. He posted it on an online dating profile. I have also seen her phone when she leaves it lying around. And I have seen the texts an d they are not just friendly texts. Should I just kick her out? Should I tell her that I know she is texts and tell her she needs to cut off all contact with this guy? | |||
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Wife Cheated on me
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