Busted by text message

So I have been feeling pretty stressed lately, with work, parenting, and my marriage. So tonight I decided to have a couple of glasses of wine and try to strike up a conversation with my husband who has been pretty distant lately, to put it nicely. I thought we were having a nice conversation and I started talking about this new hot spot devise that I got from work and I grabbed his cell phone so I could add the devise to his wireless list. When I turned the phone on, it was on his message screen with a message to his best friend saying "sorry trying to pretend to listen to my wife while texting, guess I screwed both up". I called him out on trying to pretend like it didn't bother me, like haha I sure busted you, when really I am feeling like a total idiot wondering if he feels this way every time I talk to him. I tried to hold back the tears but of course he catches me in the kitchen crying, I tell him he hurt my feelings, of course he apolog izes, but he has been so distant lately, he doesn't spend time with me or the kids, he falls asleep on the couch and doesn't come to bed until he wakes up in the middle of the night, and now this. We have been married for 13 years, and it feels like he is just a live in that I cook and clean for. If I talk to him about it is he going to listen or just pretend to listen, man I want some more wine!

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