| Hey...now you want to hear this one!!! If you want the whole story you can read my 2 other threads: http://talkaboutmarriage.com/conside...-too-late.html http://talkaboutmarriage.com/going-t...ying-move.html So how does the dumpED becomes the dumper...by doing the 180 for yourself and realizing you are moving forward, and that you are actually having fun and finding yourself again. By not fighting, not caring,not talking, not bringing up issues, you start to see more clearly the other persons faults. Everytime they are negative, they piss you off, they are not caring, mean, boring, a88holes, immature, stupid, angry for no reason...YOU SEE IT CLEARLY because your not involved emotionally anymore. The more you detach yourself the more you see, wow, I am the one who wants to try to make this work?? I want to win him back really? Why?? There are so many awesome people in the world who would respect me, accept me, love me. Only thing holding back right now is the unknown I guess. It might be just a passing thing, but at this present moment right now, I am ready to ask him to just get on with it!!!! Move along!!! | |||
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When the dumpED becomes the dumper
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