| I was reading another thread and something came to mind. I need to understand if there is something wrong with my thinking and why. I have a feeling it is a boundary issue for me. I may not be empathizing. When I was in grade school, we were encouraged to bring small Valentine's Day greetings to school and pass them out to the other students in our class. I wonder if this concept carried over into my adulthood. It was stated that it is wrong to give or send someone a Valentine's Day greeting who is married. I'm not talking about a beautiful card with all kinds of mushy "I love you", "You're the Only One for Me" types of greetings. I'm talking about a simple card or ecard or e-greeting saying "Happy Valentines Day", without "To the One I Love". I mean something with a simple, "Hope You Have a Great Day" type of greeting. It has been stated that is not good. Considering my grade school experience, why is it wrong to wish someone this type of thing? What is going on that I am missing? I honestly want to understand why. I don't think I would be angry if my wife would receive something like that, as long as it doesn't contain something suggesting a connection of more than friendship. I would be suspicious, but not ready to go to counseling until I found out more. What are the flaws in my thinking? | |||
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What's Wrong With My Thinking?
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